tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4761797783123612828.post7063510501252190238..comments2024-01-20T00:00:15.471-10:00Comments on Three Little Ferns: Guilty FeelingAlejandra http://www.blogger.com/profile/04331373979854204422noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4761797783123612828.post-42806980406585289822012-06-29T01:46:52.971-10:002012-06-29T01:46:52.971-10:00I feel the same way! But I know that the hubby wan...I feel the same way! But I know that the hubby wants us to still enjoy life here. He is very supportive of that but I can't help but be feel bad when we are "happy" here! But we all know we can't put life on hold here while they are deployed (as much as we want too) And I agree with Ashley, the husband worries less when he knows that my daughter and I are out doing things rather than having a nervous breakdown at home :) I think it is completely normal to feel guilty though!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09450575982574947403noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-4761797783123612828.post-76672446413734872372012-06-28T02:15:03.752-10:002012-06-28T02:15:03.752-10:00When my husband was deployed I'd feel guilty a...When my husband was deployed I'd feel guilty any time I did anything fun or spent money. BUT now that I can look back on it, we did save A LOT of money even though I did splurge here and there. <br /><br />You have to treat yourself every now and then. You have to keep yourself sane and connect with other wives. This last deployment my husband was on I did a girls night once a month. I kept it simple, just dinner and a movie and gave myself a budget, withdrawing cash so I wouldn't spend more than I intended. <br /><br />I've been pretty lucky too, my husband has always been super supportive and always encouraged me to spend time with family and friends while he is away. I think if he knows I'm busy with family and friends he worries less about my well-being and sanity. :)<br /><br />Ok, I'm going to stop typing now. Haha.<br /><br />Ashley<br />www.theacquisitionoftaste.blogspot.comAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00513981899255230164noreply@blogger.com